If things go wrong i often, or I guess actually always feel guilty. I know often that is not needed as for many things I am just responsible. I think that this is also the major reason why I’m not happy, as where it would just be ok to take responsibility for something and not take all the blame for it.
Yeah, what I know is that it is very easy and normal for human beings to make things bad, to blame themselfves, to feel bad. That somehow it is much more difficult to feel good about themselves.
In my case I never really figured out the difference between guilt and responsibility, while I think responsibility is a much better way of dealing with things than guilt. At least in my experience my guilt only causes trouble, makes me feel bad, and makes others feel bad also for that reason.