Well, it seems that I’m still trying to give what I don’t have. And of course that doesn’t work. So how do I give what I do have and that would make other people happy? Maybe the most important thing I don’t understand is what I have, what I have to give. And related to that I’m trying to give what I need, what i want. But still, what I’m reading is that you have to give before you can get or receive. So maybe I just don’t understand that or misinterpret that.
I had some experiences though with giving something very small that made people very happy and giving very big things that don’t make people happy. Like what’s easy for my is difficult for other people. And while writing this I realize that there is some sentence in Think and Grow Rich that is just about that. Something like don’t measure things by your own standards.
So for me it’s pretty easy to write a post like this. Or do almost anything with computers. Or do things with networking and routers. Or drive a car. Or building custom made websites for which over the years I, together with staff, built a pretty amazing web development framework for.
And what I need and want is my partner loving me like I like to love him, have money to buy a car and invite people and travel and, well, i guess that’s about it. I don’t need so much. Ah, and yes, just have some money or a ticket to visit my mam, visit some customers in The Netherlands and maybe meet or find some business partners in The Netherlands. So the last may be easy for other people, people who might find it difficult to deal with computers and websites. Or drive a car or something. Or being loved, being hugged.
So how to make that happen? How to find the people that need what you have and easily can give and can give what you need or want? Ah, yes, that’s maybe where the money comes in. That’s why they invented money.
So maybe I’ll just look for people who need or want my services and have some money to pay for that. Maybe it’s that easy, although then you end up with sales and marketing and that’s just phrases, words I don’t like. Even though I know I can be pretty good in sales. At least if I believe in the product.
Well, inspiring, this post? Not really sure, but I guess it’s better than most of the complaining crap I often write.
So if you need a good search engine friendly website or some web application or your computer fixed up, at least the software part, just let me know.