I often hear from people I’m not listening. And I never really understood, I never really got the point what they meant as I’m often trying to adapt to what people say, follow what people say, try to learn how to improve things, how to improve myself.
So in my mind, in my experience I’m doing a lot of effort to, well, try to listen to people, as that seems what I don’t do, or not do as most people do or not as good as most people do.
But recently I see a bit more that I indeed do not listen to people, that indeed somehow I’m not interested in other people. And while writing this I’m asking myself what has changed that I seem to somehow get that message better, that message that other people have been trying to pass to me for a long time.
As I am trying more and more to make this site more useful, more useful to you, instead of something like ‘just creating content to get traffic’, which was my main goal at first, based on what I know about internet search, about Google.
But for this I have no answer, no suggestion what has caused me to listen better, or at least now being aware that there is something that needs to be improved, that I want to improve.
Maybe it was the idea that came to me that if I want something from my environment, from the world, from other people, that indeed I have to adjust myself to the system. As the system just works as it works. It’s just the system.
So again, it was about ‘me’, and in my opinion it will always be about ‘me’, as for you it will always be about you. As there is nothing else.
But yes, systems are systems and they just work according to the rules of the system. So if you want the system to work for you, better understand the system and work according to the rules of the system.
So if I want to get what I want, I better understand the rules of the system and I will just get what I want, using the system.