Today the subject in the thirty day Law of Attraction program was “Love” and it started with an advice on how to look for a partner and find one. And it reminded me of a training I once did where I found out that the main thing many, many people were looking for was a partner, a lover, a life partner. Actually one of those people was me. And the weird thing was that it was stated that for many people actively looking for a partner is something ‘not done’, some kind of taboo. And it felt like kind of a relief that the leaders of the course just stated something like, why not look for a partner actively. Why not really go for it, search for it, plan actions for it. Just go until you found one, especially if it’s the most important thing in your life. And that idea felt really weird for me as for most of the other participants.
And today I found Abraham Hicks said something kind of similar. And that similar was related to something that was also mentioned in the course: don’t look for a partner ‘directly’, like looking around and see if someone is attractive. Just go out and meet people, start talking to people, whether attractive or not, whether a potential partner or not. Just be open to it, just be ready for it, but don’t be desparate, don’t ‘desperately search’, as that is what most people would think when talking about ‘actively looking for a partner’.
And yes, have your wishlist, just write it down, the things you are looking for in a partner. Nothing wrong with that? If it’s the most important thing in your life, and I guess for most people it is, then better be serious about it, better define exactly what you want.
So also my training was about plans and deadlines and such, similar to the ideas in Think and Grow Rich. So I did. I did make my list, there was a deadline and there were actions and there was something like a Master Mind, not only the group, but also your ‘buddy’. Ah, and the last is something we want to use this site for, connecting people to inspire each other, either giving or receiving or both. We can already do if you just send an e-mail to info@inspiration-for-success.com, but we are planning some tools for that in the site.
So imagine, having a plan to find a partner and described exactly how you want him or her and a deadline. Never heard of that before and it was really weird doing it.
And you know what? Shortly after the course I did meet my life partner. And he did meet my requirements. And no, I didn’t meet the deadline, but looking back I could have, if I had just done one more thing. And no, it was not ‘forced’, it did not feel like forcing myself or my partner in this relationship. We just fell in love naturally and built our relationship naturally. And no, we didn’t meet accidentally, but somehow it was just ‘accidental’ it was him in the end.
So yes, if you want a partner (or a job or a business or whatever), just imagine it, write it down, make a plan and take action. But make sure it’s not ‘forced action’ as that doesn’t work. Just be active and open and it will come. I’m quite sure about that.