I’m not sure what’s going wrong, what I do or don’t do or whatever.
Just five minutes ago someone said to me I did it wrong. And I know he was worried. But it hurt a lot and it still hurts a lot.
And fifteen minutes earlier someone else also told me I did something wrong. And that I ‘should’ do it differently.
And is seems this has been going on all my life, that I did things ‘wrong’ and ‘should’ do things.
So what is this. Am I doing the same to others? Am I somehow evoking these things for others?
And yes, it seems this all goes back to something like self confidence, which apparently I don’t have or at least don’t show.
And I guess it’s all meant well.
But it hurts. So let’s be careful what we say to each other and how we say it. Nobody has the right to judge that what we are doing is wrong. Or tell us that we ‘should’ do something.
Am very interested if you have similar experiences or have a different opinion about this.