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Could use a little inspiration myself

Well, biggest question is starting to be how would we inspire you, inspire you to be successful. That would start with something like what is success, or better, what is success for you?

So if you are looking to be inspired best click on the link what is success for you. If you just want to listen to me, to my story, just read on, as this is a blog post, my blog post, and they mostly are about me, about my life, about my experiences.

I got some comments about that, that most posts are about me, and i realized that is true. And I think I made a mistake there, as I was hoping and expecting that people would just read my stuff and be inspired by that. But I’m starting to realize that it’s not that simple. If you want to be the best site in the world on something, and that’s what I want this site to be, you’ll have to do work, do research, produce stuff that people can really use, stuff that helps them on their way to success, inspires them. And that may be fully different than what i think or know about success, motivation and inspiration. That may be fully different what I think inspiration is, than what inspires me. That may be fully different from what I think that success is or what motivates me.

So yes, quite some job to do, but learning and somehow also more motivated, as it’s starting to be real work now and not just hobby.

So what would inspire me now? Well, I guess what would inspire me at this moment would probably be more people visiting this site and even more, getting more comments on it, so I would feel more I’m working on something for other people, for the world..

All kinds of things needed

Saab 900 Turbo

Wow, it seems I put myself some tasks. And yes, I still believe virtually anything can be done and you (and I) can make virtually any dream come true. But at the moment everything just seems work, work, work. And somehow I know this is just how it works, this is how to get there, step by step, one thing at the time, no matter how slow it seems to go. Although that reminds me that many things in my life also just ‘came to me’. Many things I wanted or wished for or had somewhere in my mind were suddenly just there, without me even realized that i ever really wanted it or something.

One sample is a car I once had. It was even quite some time after I acquired it that I realized that during childhood i had kind of dreamed of this kind of car. When I was a child I was completely crazy about cars, like reading car magazines and books and i was also subscribed to a weekly magazine. One weekly item in the magazine was a weekly car test report and one week the report was about a Saab 900 Turbo (or at least a Saab Turbo). The car was way beyond I could ever imagine for my dad to have, let alone me. Anyhow, years and years later I realized I drove in one, and that I owned it. So indeed, even your wildest dreams can come true, although there was one issue with the car. It was not the shiny brand new car from the test report, but a ten year old car that was at the end of its lifetime. So be careful what you wish for, but don’t forget that I really enjoyed the car and that I was amazed that I not only drove one, but even owned it.

And this is not the only thing that happened to me, that kind of ‘came to me’. Many of the things I had in mind when I was a boy or teenager I did and got in my life, also many things that appeared completely impossible.

So yes, I guess this post even inspires me now as I know that nature or the Universe or Infinite Intelligence or God or whatever name you have for the ‘higher power’ often, or maybe even always, just gives you what you want,although sometimes not in exactly the way you had imagined it.

So whenever you are tired or down or whatever, just know that despite of all the principles of success it is not only those principles, that to me often sound like hard work, but that often things also just ‘come to you’, without direct effort or action.

Or as I started with this post like feeling of needing all kinds of things, that those things might just be there already or on the way.

So how to inspire

The last few days I have been thinking about how to find better ways to inspire people related to this website. During some research on inspiration I found a page that said something that you should inspire yourself. Maybe that is possible or good or something like that, but what I miss is inspiration from other people, so that’s what I want to give: give inspiration to other people.

So yes, I started to send daily e-mails with inspiring quotes, but still, I want to do more. I want people to find inspiration through this website, be inspired by me or by other people.

So not sure how to do that, but if you want to receive my daily e-mails with inspirational quotes just let me know through info@inspiration-for-success.com. And if you have ideas how to inspire other people through this website, please let me know. One thing I have in mind is to connect people through this website, but need to add some functionality for that. But of course you can also e-mail me for that, either whether you need someone to inspire you or if you want to inspire other people.

Anyhow, in the mean time just look around you and you will see many people who would appreciate being inspired by you, maybe especially the people you wouldn’t think they would like or need it.

The tenth ball

The last few days I have been thinking a lot about a story in one of the book Life Is What You Make It. The story is about a boy who did not feel inspired by his dad. And I recognize so much in that story. The boy tells that he and his dad played ‘play catch’ with each other, but that his dad never let him catch the tenth ball. It’s a similar feeling I have as I had the feeling I could never win from my dad, not with anything, even though one day I was able to win from him with chess, but it was only once.

It is so easy for a dad to ‘always win’, to never let his son catch the tenth ball. But the effect can be dramatic.

The boy from the story and also I know that our dads of course meant well, had their reasons to be so hard on their sons. I guess they wanted to harden their sons, prepare them for life or so.

But same like the boy in the story, I still have the feeling i can never win, although I am working hard now to get over that. And that’s also the story of my life, that I ‘never won’.

So yes, time for me to get over that, but please dads, be careful. Maybe better inspire in a positive way, like ‘You can do it!’ and let your son catch the ball, maybe a difficult ball, but make sure he catches it.

Coaching

I felt a bit alone and lost and started to think about coaching. As you may or may not know part of the background of this site is that I want it to serve as a coaching site for people who are looking for success in life.

Thinking a bit further I realized I don’t have a coach and don’t have a manager while as far as I know most successful, or at least famous, people have managers and coaches. Think of coaches and trainers for individuals and teams in sports. Think of managers of singers and bands. Think of singing instructors or teachers for famous singers. Think of agents or agencies representing actors. Think of managers of actors.

In a way I consider myself as a professional and I now know I’ve been working alone too long without a coach or manager or whatever. Or a partner who is supportive, but mine is not really. So maybe look for a coach first before anything else as while doing something alone sometimes you may just not move anymore, not know what to do.

Can you be my coach or manager or agent?