Author Archives: Guus

Controlling thoughts and patience

Today or maybe the last few days I realized that I have learned or am learning to control my thoughts. Maybe not fully, but I do control them somehow. And to tell you the truth the last time I was kind of desperate as I thought that I would never learn to control my thoughts as I kept on thinking negative thoughts.

But today I realized that I do control them and change them. Maybe not as much as I expected or wanted or something, but I am experiencing now that at least i notice negative thoughts and somehow try to bend them into something else or at least not let them affect me so much anymore. And today I realized that I think I am starting to control my subconscious mind while I thought I never would.

And the funny thing is that today I encountered the word “patience” in Think and Grow Rich while I never remembered anything patience in that book. To me the style of the whole book is still like ‘pushing’ me or you towards action, but apparently it’s not. And indeed, I keep reading it, mostly I just open it ‘somewhere’ randomly, trusting Infinite Intelligence to let me read the right thing. And mostly or actually even always I find myself reading something I needed to reach, just like today when I wanted to read about Organized Planning, but just ended up somewhere else, just somewhere that was just useful for me today.

So yes, persistence and patience(?!) do pay off. And the book reveals more and more about how to live, how to achieve success, how not to settle with circumstances but try to control them, try to turn them around if you don’t like them.

And indeed, while re-reading chapters in the book, parts of chapters in the book I read more and more different things, things that I didn’t read before, didn’t see before or didn’t realize I read them or were there.

So whatever you do or want, be persistent and patient and one day you may realize that you’re closer than you think, that you conquered something already.

So don’t give up, whatever you want, whatever you dream of, whatever you want to achieve.

Business or not

Well, Inspiration for Success is in kind of a rut. And I know a bit why, but am not sure what’s next or how to get out of it. Someone pointed out to me it’s a business as in the end it’s about money. And maybe it is, maybe it’s not. Or maybe it’s just a personal thing of mine, something like a life struggle about money. I guess the whole background of the site and maybe of many things in my life is that I just want to be paid for the things I do, for who I am, for what I’m good at. And I guess most people would want that to happen kind of naturally. So why is it so rare that happens. If I read statistics and look around me it seems most people are not happy with what they are doing (to earn, a living or more). And I still believe that’s very bad, that we organized the world that way. I don’t want to believe that life is suffering, that life is about hard work, that life is about struggling to survive or to live. Humans are so much more than animals or trees, at least that’s what I always believed.

So yes, if humans are so much more than animals or plants or whatever it doesn’t seem right that humans are suffering, suffering more than animals or plants or stones or stars or …

And going back to Think and Grow Rich and what I know about the world many people are struggling to survive in an even lesser way than animals. If I look at animals they are much more themselves naturally than human beings are. They just accept situations and appear to suffer only when they are in pain or something.

And recently I realize more and more what humanity has achieved in the way also Napoleon Hill describes in what an enormous amount of capital and effort lies behind a simple breakfast. And I realize more and more how far that goes, not only in ‘simple’ toilet stuff and bicycles and motorcycles and cars and big buildings and planes.

But I also realize more and more how this all degraded people, or at least most people, to robots, to just being part of the system, being part of the system that creates all those things.

And somehow that idea is also behind this site, partly behind my own life as I already have availed a lot of the system, but mainly for all those people who never really benefited from the system.

I am quite sure technically the whole system is quite capable of producing and giving all people what they want and need. And I really mean ALL people. But somehow we were not able to organize the world in a way where that is happening. Maybe Karl Marx came closest to that idea with communism. And don’t get me wrong, I mean communism as a philosophy where everybody does what he or she feels like what he or she should do, not the way how it was implemented as a regime.

Or would we in the end still just be like cells in a body. But then, I presume cells in a body are happier than humans are, so to me there is still something to improve as I don’t think nature intends ‘suffering’. By the way, this way of thinking makes me sometimes focusing on the cells in my body, wishing them all well, as I know the ‘I’ that I feel or am is more than the sum of the cells. And I also know each individual cell is not important in itself. But in the end it is, as without all those individual cells the body wouldn’t exist.

So as I started this post, is this site about business? Yes, in the current system it is. So indeed, the business model would need to involve money if I would want to spend more time on it. So if you think the site and my ideas are worth spending more time on I guess money wise, which our current system is built on, you might want to consider to pay me for the work and effort I do. And yes, that would mean there is a business model.

Rubber day

Today I visited a rubber plantation because we are considering starting a rubber plantation, or at least plant part of our land with rubber. And I’m starting to realize it’s business, so these type of things should be run as a business. And that means indeed applying the principles of success in order to be successful.

And even though I want my web development business to be my primary business and to be successful I now realize what mistakes I made with that and why it is not where I would have expected it to be. So with the rubber I want to do better, indeed first have some ideas, which I already have, to be ‘different’ from other rubber plantations, to have an advantage. And then indeed do research, serious research or involve people who already have the knowledge. And then plan and just put the plan into action. And then, also looking to my post of yesterday, it should be very simple to be successful, to just have a rubber plantation.

And I said simple, not easy. There will be still hurdles on the way and in this case as I’m not experienced in anything agriculture I may make mistakes in that area. And persistence will be needed as the whole thing might not be as simple as I thought or expected.

But yes, just applying the simple steps of wanting something, doing some research, make a (good) plan and implement the plan should just be enough for anything. And indeed, looking around it may just be that simple for anything or virtually anything.

Search and you will find

As I am not home and the laptop broke down and I don’t have any modern gadgets that have internet access like a table I had no option but to look for an internet cafe to send my daily quote and to post my daily posts. As I am in a big city not far from the center I just went to the hotel desk and asked where I could use the internet. There was one, but it was closed. Try tomorrow morning. As I wanted to do my daily posts I pushed a bit, but no solutions came from the people behind the front desk. I decided to try my luck and just roam around a bit. I thought I knew the area quite a bit from some time ago and an internet cafe could not be far. How wrong I was. It was very quiet outside and despite it is a big city the streets were almost deserted. Also most, or actually practically all shops and businesses around were closed. A bit scary, but I decided to push through.

There were a lot of taxi drivers around who tried to sell me a ride, but I didn’t feel like taking a taxi. I did get the hunch to ask one of them and he came with an answer, pointed a direction and it sounded like not too far away. So I decided to go and after a while I indeed found an internet cafe, probably the one that was pointed out to me. And I was very happy to have found it as it was a bit further than I expected and I was about to give up or find another way. So the post title is “Search and you will find”, but after writing it and starting to write the post I realized that I had done a little bit more than just searching and finding. First, I had the desire to do my daily inspiration for success things. Next I decided to gather some information, do research, ask. Then I made my plan and after that I took the action of implementing my plan. And while researching I was quite a bit persistent to get what I wanted and I was also persistent in continuing finding what I wanted to find by just walking a little bit further than I thought the distance would be.

I also realized I was careful to keep track of the road so I could go back to the hotel and also careful looking around for danger as it was quite late in a big city I’m not familiar with where it was a bit too quiet to be or feel fully safe. I also realized that Infinite Intelligence pointed me in the direction to ask a taxi driver and that the taxi driver I asked also had the right answer.

So maybe the principles of success are that simple and I even implemented them in a very natural way in this case. So for the bigger successes I”m looking for maybe I just need to scale it up a bit. Maybe that’s all.

 

 

Leadership

Well, I’ve read a lot about leadership recently. I guess I want to be one and I guess I can be one, but it seems to come at a price and I’m not sure if I’m willing to pay the price. Also it seems my social skills may need a lot of improvement to become a leader. And while writing this I know I want to be a leader, I know I can be a leader, so maybe still go for it.

Ah, yes, indecision and doubt. Not really working indeed.

And as we didn’t really create this page yet, you may want to check another site with a great post on Ten Great Leadership Lessons.