Tag Archives: Persistence

Long drive

I don’t feel really inspired and the first thing that came in my mind when feeling the need to put a title was ‘long drive’, so that is what the title of this post became. But as mostly, after writing, I may just put a fully different title, as often I wander from the subject I started a post with to something completely else. And I often wonder if that is the ‘right’ way to write a post, to write my blog items in this site, but I know there is no ‘right’ way, it is just my way. And I know that my posts are kind of a diary, and I read somewhere that a blog or posts in a blog should not be a diary (to be successful). So I often feel bad as part of this site, my blog, reads like a diary, yes, indeed, probably with not so much inspiring stuff for others.

But today, at the end of the day, after indeed a long drive, I don’t know really how to continue, as I am very tired, which is logical, as I woke up around six am this morning and right now it is almost 11.30pm and we drove most of the day. And even as I was not the driver, I am still tired.

So I guess I’ll call it quits for today, even though I wanted to write a little bit about the hardwood shop we passed by and the hardwood trees I bought. But I guess it’s enough as my mind doesn’t want to produce any more words right now, so maybe I’ll write about today tomorrow.

Holiday

I am on holiday and that makes me think more and more whether I should insist, read ‘force myself’, to keep writing every day in periods like this. As I guess everybody needs a holiday every now and then free from everything. But somehow I also want to stick to my decision to write every day here, as somehow that is what I have decided. And according to Napoleon Hill some kind of stubbornness is better than, well, whatever. So yes, I am kind of stubborn here, forcing myself to write every day, send a quote every day, where somehow everything seems to be against it, including the Universe, including Infinite Intelligence.

And yes, I know there is fear behind, the fear of letting go, the fear of not continuing here what I started, continuing writing about success, about my road to success. And part of it is discipline, something I am not good at, or at least was not good at. So I am scared to lose that discipline again, to lose the skill to start something and continuing it, finishing it.

But of course with a blog or a site like this there is no ‘finish’. And somehow, one day, I’ll have to stop writing or at least change something. At least as the last few months it is not really working what I am doing here, except proving to myself, well, that I am still stubborn.

So yes, maybe it is time to find some new way of doing this, continuing this website, this blog. But yes, I need to do it very careful, I need to be very careful to not find some kind of excuse to make changes to just let go what I started, just let go of the success of writing every day (except Sundays). As somehow that is helping me, has helped me to get on the road to success.

So let’s be careful, but let’s be open to guidance from The Universe, from Infinite Intelligence, to make this into a better, more useful venture.

Comments very welcome.

Forgiveness and success

Well, yesterday I decided to skip, as I was about to go on holiday. And right now I don’t really feel like writing, but maybe just share that I did manage to connect to internet and I think managed to send the first batch of the daily quote sending. But I am still tired of the trip as I did not really sleep last night and only an hour or so around lunchtime today. So I guess I will forgive myself not to really write a lot today, but I guess I did well by just connecting to the internet, finding a quote, sending it and writing this.

So that is some kind of success.

Much more structured

The last weeks, months I notice that I am much more structured than before. As for my major internet project I am pretty serious now to create a proper file so I can follow up things like e-mails sent to investors and such. And I finish many more things than ever before, even though sometimes it can take quite a long time before I take action, But ‘unfinished business’ stays much longer in my mind than before, and somehow, sometimes I pick up one of the old and not so important things up and finish it.

So yes, I learned some discipline. And it pays off, as with the businesses and people I try to reach for my new, huge, project, I understand it is logical some persistence is needed, that you have to send reminder e-mails or if that doesn’t work, need to send letters. As somehow the people or organizations not replying is some kind of hurdle you need to take, some kind of way to show that you are really interested, that you really want something. And no, I don’t believe it is on purpose that people don’t reply, although in some cases it may be. I guess mostly I am just one of those many kind of anonymous e-mails, people, wanting something from someone or some organization.

And yes, let me just confirm what I also read about e.g. writers who have sent their manuscripts many, many times to many, many publishers and received many, many rejections. I can confirm that indeed persistence pays off, that in the end until now most people I wanted to reach I just reached. And no, I did not get sixty or even ten rejections. Mostly three or four tries to the same person just works to get a reply. And I can also confirm that after the first few successes, I just got more confident. Even that confident, that I know know that you can reach any person you want to reach. Literally anybody. As indeed, there are two options, as I recently often state: either I achieve what I want to achieve, or I die before that.

Be careful what you wish for…

Mitsubishi Pajero Black 2015.A while ago I wrote a letter to Mitsubishi in Japan, as I wanted to inform them that I have put my mind on a black Mitsubishi Pajero, highest model, diesel with manual transmission. And while writing this, I realize that that letter was partly written based on fear, fear of not receiving the car I am determined to acquire within the time frame that Mitsubishi will still produce this car. But of course there was more, as somehow of course I am hoping that Mitsubishi would just give me the car I am determined to have, preferably including everything needed to be able to drive it, as as of the moment I still have no clue how I would realize all of this in the ‘real world’, the real world of money and such.

And I actually had no clue what to expect. I just wrote a letter to the President of Mitsubishi Motors Corporation in Japan, including an image of the car I have in mind, with the statement that I am determined to have this car, brand new, but have no means of just buying the car in the near future. So basically my request was to reserve a car like that for me until I would have the funds available to buy and drive it. And of course I doubted(?!) and still doubt that they would just give me that car, so my main request was basically to just have some kind of reply, even if it were just a confirmation of receipt of my letter.

So I had no clue what to expect, but, as I mostly do recently with these type of things, I just sent the letter and left it to The Universe what to do with it. And for quite a while, months, I didn’t hear anything. And as it was not really priority and I didn’t feel anything about it, I didn’t do anything like following up, something I often do (persistence…). So a few weeks ago I received a letter from Mitsubishi Motors Corporation, which made me quite happy, as at least I got a reply to my strange letter, my strange request. And I was a bit scared to open the letter at first, but after one or two days I opened the letter to see what the President of Mitsubishi Motors Corporation had done with my strange request.

And I was a bit disappointed. Or actually a lot. As it seemed my letter apparently hadn’t reached Mr. Takashi Nishioka, the President of Mitsubishi Motors Corporation, the person I was trying to reach. Apparently the letter had been passed to the marketing department of Mitsubishi Motors Corporation and was handled with what felt like a standard reply to Mitsubishi Pajero enthusiasts. Something like that they were happy with my interest in a Mitsubishi Pajero, but that Mitsubishi Motors Corporation does not sell cars themselves and that I should contact the local representation in The Philippines. And yes, the address was provided, but no name of a contact person or anything and the postal code was missing.

And of course this letter made me think of leadership, the leadership that Napoleon Hill mentions when he states that leadership requires delegation to capable lieutenants, so a leader can appear to be in many places at the same time and can handle many things at the same time. And to me Mr. Takashi Nishioka did not really pass the leadership test, as my letter was intended to be personally read by him, which I thought I stated pretty clearly, and not to be handled by the marketing department of Mitsubishi Motors Corporation. Actually I would have appreciated a simple one sentence letter stating that he had received my letter with his signature, than a more or less standard letter from the marketing department. Anyhow, of course it is up to him or Mitsubishi how to deal with with this, so please don’t misunderstand, as I mean no offense here or anything. I made and sent the letter and just released it to The Universe, and this is what I got.

And of course, me being me, persistent and dreaming and taking action, decided to see if I could get something more. So I did two things:

  1. I wrote a letter to Mitsubishi Motors Philippines Corporation as suggested, without any research, so I didn’t add the name of the CEO or anything.
  2. I wrote a second letter to Mr. Takashi Nishioka as I wanted to inform him about my feelings about the handling of my first letter.

And I guess it will take a while again before I hear anything related to (1) as PHLPOST took months to deliver the first letter, but today I got an e-mail from Mitsubishi Motors Philippines Corporation relating to my letter, which kind of made me happy, as the tone of the letter was very accommodating, even though I had the feeling that Mitsubishi Philippines didn’t really know what to do with my request, which of course is logical.

Ah, and one of the reasons to write this post, or actually the main reason, was that Mitsubishi Philippines stated that the car I have in mind is only available with automatic transmission in The Philippines. And that statement made me think, made me think a lot. Because how far should I go, should you go, to get exactly what you want. Something like “if Mitsubishi would decide to give me a black Pajero, highest model, diesel, with automatic transmission, should I take it or not?”.

Very interesting question to me, which made me think again about the phrase “Be careful what you wish for”.